o9. ♌ network post

[moirailcompass]

[Nepeta really wishes there was a better filtering system. She's been wanting to ask this for a while but...well, might as well just have at it.]

:33 < id like to ask everyone a question
:33 < how much should you furgive someone?
:33 < if theyve done something really pawful
:33 < what is the line betw33n being difficult
:33 < and being sensible
:33 < even if the purrson might be completely sincere
:33 < are there some things that should never be furgiven?

Comments

[chosenwielder.livejournal.com]

[...Yeah, this is totally relevant to his interests.]

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[moirailcompass]

:33 < how can you tell the diffurence?

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[chosenwielder.livejournal.com]

[ragesnake.livejournal.com]

[moirailcompass]

:33 < im purrty sure you know who im talking about

also i'm sorry he's being a douche

[ragesnake.livejournal.com]

[haha-steelguard.livejournal.com]

[moirailcompass]

:33 < its a bit of a complicated situation
:33 < the purrson is here
:33 < but they come furrom a time befur they did what they did

[haha-steelguard.livejournal.com]

[vestigiaflammae.livejournal.com]

[...this guy must really like cats.]

[moirailcompass]

:33 < so
:33 < do you think its okay not to?
:33 < would it be petty if you cant bring yourself to?

[vestigiaflammae.livejournal.com]

[overclocking.livejournal.com]

To me there are things that are absolutely unforgivable.

But I digress. If you feel like you want to forgive someone then you should. It isn't that complicated.

[moirailcompass]

:33 < if i may ask
:33 < what would you say those things are?

[overclocking.livejournal.com]

Intentionally spreading an incurable disease.

[swagneto]

Depends on what they've done. Certain things are, after all inexcusable.

There's nothing wrong about being difficult; you could be sensible for all they know.

[moirailcompass]

:33 < what would you consider inexcusable?

[swagneto]

An act of aggression, I would say. If you're referring to a particular incident, I could probably consider otherwise.

I generally don't forgive, however.

[fierybluebird]

I don't forgive betrayal, but everything should be taken case by case.

[moirailcompass]

:33 < that is kind of in part what happened...
:33 < though i dont really know if it was betrayal
:33 < or if it was just my naivety getting me in trouble

[She kind of realizes at this point, that there might be some cultural conflict going on here, which is just opening up another can of worms, and leads her to yet another question.]

:33 < back home this purrson was purrty much entitled to do what he did
:33 < encouraged even i think
:33 < do you think that
:33 < or a purrsons background can be a justification fur things they do
:33 < in the purresent?

ooc: sorry this is late; CCNY

[fierybluebird]

I think it's never too late to start learning. Do you need help standing up for yourself?

[elegant-pirate.livejournal.com]

[moirailcompass]

:33 < is that an okay thing to do?
:33 < it s33ms kind of
:33 < wrong i guess
:33 < to change how you judge certain things
:33 < just beclaws of how you f33l about it

[totallynotaspaz.livejournal.com]

[I HOPE YOU LIKE NAIVETE!]

[moirailcompass]

[Oh Danny never change]

:33 < well i know fur certain
:33 < that they at least werent trying to do anything good
:33 < but is that all someone n33ds to be furgiven?
:33 < to be sincere in how sorry they are?