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[seethelanterns]

How...how do you know if someone likes you? I mean, I know there are different kinds of 'love', but...how can you tell? How do you know if you 'love' someone? If you do, how would you tell them? Would you, if you weren't...sure you'd see them again?

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[bunnypassingby]

I don't know how you tell if someone else likes you, but I think I realized I liked someone because being with him made me happy, even if we were just doing something really simple like walking to school or something, and because I really worry about him - I want him to be safe and happy and do all in life that he wants to, and I'd do anything to make that happen. [This isn't saying much, considering Mikuru would martyr herself for a sandwich.]

Not that my friends don't make me happy and I don't want that for my friends too, but it's different... More intense... I want to hold hands with him, and everything else, too! [Well, maybe not everything else; she's just too embarrassed to admit she wants to kiss someone. Even though he's not even here to read this.]

I was trying to figure out if he liked me too before I told him... But if I'd known I wouldn't see him again for ages, I definitely would have told him.

[seethelanterns]

Hm. I--think I get it. Sort of... More intense? [She knows she feels for Flynn differently than Mother, and differently than Pascal, it's figuring out what this means, if it is this...'love' thing that she's not sure on, exactly.] I did have fun with him, once he started to like me, at least...I think he did.

[bunnypassingby]

Sorry, I know that was a really bad explanation... [Not that she could explain herself any better in her own language. This love stuff is confusing.]

What was it that made you think he likes you?

[seethelanterns]

Well....um, he...seems to like me more than when we first met, at least. And told me....uh, secrets. That he says would ruin his reputation. He made the day I spent in Corona so fun. And he seemed sort of protective when we were being chased.

[bunnypassingby]

Ooh, telling you secrets sounds like he likes you, or at least that he really trusts you, and that's a good start!

[seethelanterns]

I guess it is. I mean, he said he wouldn't want to ruin his reputation.

[moirailcompass]

:33 < thats a really good question
:33 < ive kinda wondered about it myself
:33 < its hard to say beclaws diffurent people have diffurent ways
:33 < of expurressing themselves
:33 < but as a general
:33 < i think if they pay a lot of attention to you
:33 < even if its slightly negative
:33 < or if they open up to you
:33 < or if they sometimes act kinda nervously around you
:33 < those might be some signs

[seethelanterns]

[Oh....well, this does seem to fit Flynn, yes.] That...does seem to fit, yeah. He didn't seem to really like me at first, but I think he changed....along the way.

[moirailcompass]

:33 < then there is a chance he does!
:33 < i mean they are only signs
:33 < but if they give you a lot of attention thats a purrty big sign
:33 < it also means they want a lot of your attention
:33 < and if they act nervous it could be beclaws they want to impuress you
:33 < but arent sure how
:33 < and opening up to some is a sign of great trust
:33 < how does he act around you?

[seethelanterns]

He..definitely opened up more, told me secrets, and listens to me. [Actually listens, properly, not like Mother who interrupts and belittles her.]

[moirailcompass]

[Daaw, Rapunzel. Just wait, Nepeta is going to end up shipping you two]

:33 < aww x33
:33 < and how about around others?
:33 < it would be good to compare how he acts with you
:33 < and around others

[breakspromises.livejournal.com]

Usually one of two things happens....he's really nice to you, or he's really mean to you. Usually if he's mean to you, he hasn't reach maturity yet.

[seethelanterns]

What if he's mean at first but seems nicer the more time you spend together....?

[breakspromises.livejournal.com]

It means he's starting to like you.

Do you like him? [/nosey Steph]

[seethelanterns]

Oh...you think so?

I...I think I do? I mean, I didn't so much at first, but now....he's done a lot for me.

[breakspromises.livejournal.com]

Then you should go after him! Tell him you like him.

[wildmelody.livejournal.com]

Hard to say. I guess it would be the little things to demonstrate it. Like those simple gestures that mean a lot. I'm really not too sure...

[seethelanterns]

Simple gestures?

[wildmelody.livejournal.com]

Yeah. I heard that people in love, really use the simple things. A meaningful smile here, a few well placed words there, a hand hold...

[seethelanterns]

I see.....I guess I'm just....I know there are different kinds of love. I'm just not sure how to really tell if that's...how I feel about him.

[wildmelody.livejournal.com]

My dad and mom once said, "Love will grow, just give it time". I'm sure that's something that'll make it better once its fully realized.

[tromba-d-aria.livejournal.com]

[seethelanterns]

Act different how?

[tromba-d-aria.livejournal.com]

[seethelanterns]

Eugene has been nicer since we first met.