http://xnotarunt.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] witchesreign2011-07-02 10:49 pm
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Uh yeah. I was kinda wondering. How do you ask someone to a dance if you don't really know if they're interested? I mean... she's a really good friend and I think I kinda wanna ask her out but I don't know if she even likes me!

In other words, how do you ask someone without looking like a total idiot because they probably don't like you back but you wanna try anyway?


[ However, if you have a funny feeling as to who really asked this, she's in the cafeteria, trying to choke down her lunch and wondering why she even made that post in the first place. ]
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[identity profile] ronnae.livejournal.com 2011-07-02 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Well considering you already have the advantage of them being a friend? I'd go and ask them. I mean, it'd be different if it were someone random, but since you know her already, you have a better chance.

Worst case scenario? They say no. But that doesn't mean you'll stop being friends right?

[identity profile] martin-sorvat.livejournal.com 2011-07-03 03:45 am (UTC)(link)

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-03 10:38 am (UTC)(link)
Well yeah but doesn't that make it kinda awkward? If your friend suddenly outta nowhere asked you to something that's kinda like a date... you know what I mean.

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-03 10:38 am (UTC)(link)
I can't help it! You ever done anything like this before?
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[personal profile] hotpinkwhirlwind 2011-07-03 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
With flowers or chocolate or something she likes. It makes it clear that you're asking as a date instead of just as a friend. And then even if she doesn't like you back, hopefully she'll still think better of you because she likes the present.

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[identity profile] ronnae.livejournal.com 2011-07-03 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Well you won't know unless you try right? I don't know what would be worse, never knowing the answer, or having an awkward moment with a friend. I think I would rather have the embarrassing moment with my friend even with how shy I am. It's something we could look back on and laugh about.

But like I said, worse case scenario? She'll say no. So you have a good chance!

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah! Yeah, that's a great way of putting it! I'm totally gonna do it!

It's still kinda scary though but thanks for the advice.

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
You know, I like your attitude. A little pep talk's just what I needed, I guess.

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[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a good idea but what do you give royalty, instructor?

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. They're having this social to celebrate something. Not really sure myself but it sounds like a good idea!

[identity profile] ronnae.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad I could help! And I hope you guys have fun!

[identity profile] xnotarunt.livejournal.com 2011-07-07 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'll try. Thanks!
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[personal profile] hotpinkwhirlwind 2011-07-07 09:44 am (UTC)(link)
1) How seriously does she take her royal status?
2) What's she into?

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