I guess you have a point. We're all from different times, worlds, and all. That does mean that things are different for everyone then too, don't you think?

1. It doesn't make her desperate! It just means she wants to play an active part in her life. Why could anyone would think that a we should just stand there passively? [Hello rebellious streak that lead to leading the timber owls combined with her rather outspoken nature.]

2. I'm beginning to think I don't like your list very much.

4. It's private sure, but how is it vital? It's not like it's that important.