Then create your own event. If you hate dances that much, you should ask her specifically so that you will have something to enjoy there. And you should make sure that is the message she receives. I'm not a fan of balls either, back home, I only crashed them for information or when I had to. They still serve that purpose. You're going to be there anyway, might as well give you both a reason to find something good in it.
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Then create your own event. If you hate dances that much, you should ask her specifically so that you will have something to enjoy there. And you should make sure that is the message she receives. I'm not a fan of balls either, back home, I only crashed them for information or when I had to. They still serve that purpose. You're going to be there anyway, might as well give you both a reason to find something good in it.
[Sighs and backs off to let him leave now.]